In your words explain a little about
yourself, who are you?
I have no title, self-proclaimed or other. I am just
a man who likes to question and live life. I'm a seeker, a looker for
truisms so I can get a deeper connection with my authentic self. I will
never tire of trying new things, or going to new places. For me life is
about the journey, not the destination. I am a hopeless romantic and I
believe everyone is basically a good person. I know that with some you
have to look harder, but we are all good. I like to live life to its
fullest and enjoy good wine, good food, good friends and the company of
men and especially women.
Lets begin the 20
Questions with...
1, Do you have any
regrets?
Yes, one in 1976 and one in 1994.
2 , What is your
first memory?
My earliest memories are a montage of different
things when my family lived in Gem Village, Colorado. I built a snow
sculpture of my invisible and best friend Duke, My mother got mad at me
because the sculpture had a penis. My father hated snakes and he drew
back a fisted hand at my brother when he tried to stick a water snake
in his face. I saw my Grandfather Hack hide his whiskey in the ceiling
of his room the only time I remember him coming to visit us. There're
are more little snips of being in and around that house, but those were
the dominate memories.
3, What is the
stupidest thing you will ever admit to doing?
It is a tossup between having sex with my girlfriend
while driving an old Dodge pickup as fast as I could down a winding
country road while I looked over her shoulder, and hiding exposed film
from British solders in Belfast, Northern Ireland while they had the
car
stopped at gun point.
4, What is your
favorite guilty pleasure?
I like forgetting about eating right and my
waistline, so I stop by a C-store and buy a Hostess Cherry, or Apple
pie. I eat it all inside the car, within a three-block radius, without
anyone seeing, or knowing that I have just dabbled with gluttony.
5, What would your
porn star name be?
As I do not think I would like the vision of my big
ass on the screen I would have to work behind the scenes in the porn
industry, something like a producers, talent scout, or field tester.
With that job title my porn name would have to be, "the Colonel."
6, What is the
hardest drug you have ever done?
I never used a needle, I fear them, but if I could
answer this question then I would not have done any hard drugs. I do
know that I never tried anything just once. I'm also glad that I lived
through my drug years, because I knew no bounds and at times it became
a challenge to see how much I could do. It is a good thing that I don't
do them anymore. I think drugs are a lot better now then when I was
playing with them.
7, Are there any
nude pictures of you in this world?
Yes, one. Email me for a link!
8, Do you prefer
lights on or off during sex?
Depends on who I am with.
9, What is the
wildest thing that you have ever done?
I'm not sure. I was a paratrooper in the Army, I've
chased wild cows though the forest on horseback. I worked as a
photojournalist in Northern Ireland and Nicaragua. I've climbed
mountains and glaciers, repelled off cliffs and spent a lot of time
snowmachining with Bill Webb. I have almost drowned in a lake when my
canoe flipped and now I want to be in water all the time. My whole life
has been a bit wild and full of adventure. The one thing about it all
that I know for sure is Wild will keep you alive and I don't plan to
stop anytime soon.
10, What do you
wear in bed?
Are you supposed to were something in bed?
11, How many items of
jewelry do you wear on a daily bases?
23 – One of the best things I have heard about all
the jewelry that I wear was, "You’re like my mother, you wear all your
jewelry at once."
12, Have you ever gone
skinny dipping?
Yes, when there is no ice, on a daily bases. It is
how I wash the day away. I cleanse the unpleasantness, the small parts
of the day that do not agree with me by diving deep into the lake. As I
feel the water rush by my skin so does the parts of the day that I do
not want to keep.
13, When you close your
eyes and relax, where do you go?
My utopia is a place where everything is calm and
you can marvel in the sights and serenity around you. It's a place
where you can be the person that you are, not who you are told to be.
My life quest is to actually find this spot and I'm sure it is out
there on an island someplace.
14, You can tell a lot
about a person by the tittles of books on their bookshelves. What books
do you have on your shelves?
As I look around to answer this question I see lots
of art books, photography books and authors like; Leonardo da Vinci,
Henry Miller, Richerd Brautigan, Richard Halliburton, Ernest Hemingway,
Walt Whitman, C.S. Lewis, Peter Beard, Nick Bantouk, Hanna Hinchmen, R.
Crumb, Jimmy Buffett, Will James, Jack Kerouac I could go on for pages
and pages. Books have been a big part of my life and who I am.
15, What music has
changed your life? Or what do you listen to.
Music has not really changed my life, although I did
try to pattern my life for a while after Stepping Wolf and Born To Be
Wild. I'm glad I lived through that era. What music does for me is
makes me remember, it takes me back to different parts of my life. No
mater what we have done, there is some music that will take us back to
that moment.
16, If you could be
in any profession, other than the one that you are in, what would it be?
A teacher. I think they are the most valuable people
and profession that there is. A good teacher should inspire us to look.
17, Tell me
something about yourself that most do not know?
I am a wanted felon in Italy. 'nuff said.
18, How old were
you when you lost your virginity?
Physically when I was 14. Emotionally when I was 15.
19, What have you
not done that you must do before you die?
Set foot on all foreign countries.
20, Name someone
that you admire and why?
My father. William Norman Abernathy. He had to quit
school in the 8th grade, but was the smartest man I know. There was
nothing that he could not do. If he don't know something he would
learn. He never forgot that he was a father and he loved beyond all
things his children. He has been gone for a long time now, but I still
find myself wishing I could ask his advise.
21, When were you
were invincible?
When I was young and growing up in Colorado. I was
not afraid of anything. We use to play chicken on bikes and no one
would ever turn away. I have had some tremendous head on crashes. A lot
of skin and blood was left on the street, but nothing else. We always
limped away laughing. We tried to jump ditches; over ledges off roofs
with a sheet to break the fall, we skied behind trucks flying down a
snow packed highway, we didn't fear anything. We were the Jackass shows
before video.
22, When did you
realize that you were not?
When I was a paratrooper in the Army. I jumped in
high winds and my risers got tangle. I was coming down way to fast. I
knew that landing was going to suck, I was out of control and it was
going to be bad. I started to let all those thoughts flood into my
mind, the thoughts you have before death, like the wrong things that I
had done and the people that I loved. It was strange though I didn't
feel any fear. Lucky it was not my time. I hit hard and just broke a
lot of bones. As the wind was dragging me across the drop zone,
bouncing off rocks and cactus I realized that life is a bit more
precious than I had thought before.
23, The ancient
Greeks believed that it was not what you accomplished in life, it
I would be
at peace knowing that my art, my words and the person that I am have
touched someone, helping them in someway. I have always lived my life
as an open book. I do not hide what I have done. When I am gone I hope
my children are proud and everyone will still want to read my life
book. I want to be known as living life hard, leaving a wide wake with
who I am, and whom I have met. If I have made a few people wonder
with the things that I have done, If I have made them think, then I
have done something worth while. It has been said that, the number of
people that come pay their last respects measures life. I hope that I
pack the house on that exit day.