23 Questions with...Jessica Fredyma


I am a single mom living in Concord, NH.  I work full time as a veterinary technician as well as owning 2 successful small businesses, a web design company and a photography business.  I never grew out of my childhood  obsession with horses and photography them locally.

Lets begin the 20 Questions with…

1, Do you have any regrets? 
Of course, everyone has regrets.  Its what you do with the lessons that you learn from them that makes the difference.

2 ,What is your first memory?
I remember being in the hospital when I was 1 1/2 years old.  I had been running around my house with a sheet over my head pretending to be a ghost when I ran into the corner of a stereo speaker and split my head open right between the eyes. The doctors were putting those butterfly bandages over my laceration to keep it closed, they said I was too little for stitches.

3, What is the stupidest thing you will ever admit to doing?
Oh wow, I unfortunately do stupid things pretty frequently.  One day I needed to time some food that I had cooking in the oven and the oven timer was broken, so I used the next best thing... the microwave timer and let the microwave run empty for about 20 min.  Needless the say the microwave short-circuited and died.  My parents weren't thrilled.

4, What is your favorite guilty pleasure?
Daytime TV court shows, for some reason those shows are hopelessly addicting and it's a good thing I work full-time or I would probably watch them every day. 

5, What would your porn star name be?
Humm, I hadn't really thought about this question before.
How about Moan-a Lisa

6, What is the hardest drug you have ever done?
Extacy, only did it once, for my 21st birthday but I would probably do it again if the circumstances were right.

7, Are there any nude pictures of you in this world?
Nope, not that I am aware of.

8, Do you prefer lights on or off during sex?
 Lights off, it heightens the other senses.

9, What is the wildest thing that you have ever done?
I once went on a cruise with my sister to Bermuda and at the time I wasn't a particularly out-going person.   After a few drinks at the club one night the DJ began to ask for volunteers for a lip-synching contest.  Having never done anything like that before I volunteered and was selected to go first.  The song was Gloria Gainer's "I Will Survive" and we had to lip sync and dance to the song for a panel of 4 male judges from the audience.  Well not only did I sing the entire song I also pulled out all my best cheerleader/strip tease moves and wowed the judges.  I had people coming up to me for the rest of the cruise telling me how great a job I did and how much fun it was to watch.  It was something at the time I never thought I'd be able to do, but I did and it was great!

10, What do you wear in bed?
Cami top and pj bottoms, comfort all the way!

11, How many items of jewelry do you wear on a daily bases?
I wear 2 toe rings, an anklet, 4 earrings (ears) and two barbells (nipples)

12, Have you ever gone skinny dipping?
Yes, another thing that I never thought that I would do but I did.

13, When you close your eyes and relax, where do you go?
Either my mind goes blank or it goes to work, thinking about which animals we have in the hospital, what we need to do with them the next day.  What might go wrong with them and what would we need to do in that situation. 

14, You can tell a lot about a person by the tittles of books on their
bookshelves.  What books do you have on your shelves?
 Humm, right now I'm reading the Horse Whisperer, with Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows to follow.  I have classics like This Side of Paradise, Wuthering Heights and The Great Gatsby.  I also have Sea Biscuit  and the New York Bartenders Guide.

15, What music has changed your life? Or what do you listen to?
 My favorite band is Pearl Jam.  There is a quality to Eddie Vedder's voice that is both soothing and masculine at the same time and I've always been drawn to his music.  I am also a huge fan of the Grateful Dead, Frank Sinatra and Maroon 5.

16, If you could be in any profession, other than the one that you are in, what would it be?
 I would love to be a couple of things 1) a Paleontologist, I have always loved dinosaurs and extinct, ancient species.  I always thought it would be cool to unearth fossils and learn new things about ancient animals.  2) I have always had an interest in DNA and if it weren't completely morally wrong to do so I would like to mess around with DNA and see what mutations would occur with changes in the code or structure of the chains.  3) I would like to be a Patriots Cheerleader.

17, Tell me something about yourself that most do not know?
I am highly allergic to guinea pigs.

18, How old were you when you lost your virginity?
I was 17.

19, What have you not done that you must do before you die?
 I would like to see the Aurora Borealis.

20, Name someone that you admire and why?
I admire Ty Pennington, he took his fame and did something good with it.  He helps families who have nothing and gives them a safe, comfortable and beautiful place to live.  One major thing that the family no longer needs to worry about.  It is also amazing how he can get so many people to volunteer there time in a day and age where most people are too busy or too self-centered to help someone in need.

21, When were you were invincible?
I think that as a child when you have no concept of death you are invincible.

22, When did you realize that you were not?
The day I realized that every living thing dies eventually and that it would happen to me too.  I think i was 8 or 9 at the time.

23, The ancient Greeks believed that it was not what you accomplished
in life, it was how you lived your life. When you die how would you
like to be remembered?
I would like to be remembered as someone who cared deeply for her friends, someone who was kind and who made an impression on other peoples lives.  Someone who took joy in the little things that life had to offer and someone who loved to laugh and smile.  A person that others wanted to be around.

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